There's no such thing as a perfect relationship, is there?
Why are there always misunderstandings that drive couples apart? Why are there so much obstacles that couples face? Why do exes have to come into the picture and ruin such a picture perfect relationship? Why do feelings fade? Why do people have to flirt with others when they're already in a relationship? Why would you tell someone you love them and then do things that you know would hurt them? Why be in a relationship when you're acting as if you're single?
Haha, I know I'm being random. I was just studying chemistry (sucks, i understand nothing at all) when someone whatsapp-ed me because she was having some relationship problems. All I could do was listen because I didn't know what to say. After all, are there truly any words that can heal a breaking heart? I really had no idea how to comfort her or how to give her advices. Truthfully, the first thing that came into my mind was to "break up with him."
But no, relationships shouldn't be that way. When there's something wrong, you fix it. Together. It takes two hands to clap, same goes with relationships. It takes two people to make a relationship work. Two. Not one, definitely not three. It can't be that only one person is trying to fight for the relationship. Neither can it be that another person is involved in the relationship that is supposed to be only between two people. There's no way it will work and it wouldn't end pretty.
And you know what else is not pretty? People who flirt with their exes who are already taken. Having someone flirting with your bf/gf is already bad enough but if that someone was in a relationship previously with your bf/gf, that's just plain torture. Because, you know, that they once had feelings for each other. What makes you think that feeling will never come back? And that can cause someone to feel jealous and insecure about the relationship. I swear, people who are like this, please stop. You've already had your chance with that person once and the relationship didn't work. So give others a chance to try, maybe their relationship might work out and you might find someone who's right for you. But flirting with your ex won't help you get anywhere, you're just dwelling in your past.
Haha, oh man, I don't even know what i'm talking about right now. My mind is so messed up, I don't think I'm making any sense right now. I don't think i have the right to talk about relationships seeing that i've never been in one. But I've seen my friends cry about guys who broke their hearts and heard countless stories about how a relationship never worked out. So yeah haha #foreveralone
"Another sleepless night trapped in my own fucking mind."
